Wednesday, December 20, 2006

Strictness

Okay, so being strict is for our own good.
But, c'mon lah..!
If you're too strict and ppl can't take it,
they'll hate you, leave and never come back....

Don't be too strict!
the club will 100% dies if we keep on scolding ppl like that!
I went to the cosplay club forum, and sometimes ppl does go OOT and etc.
And what did the mods do? Remind them, that's all...
They don't go scolding the forumers, okay?

Please lah, I don't like these kind of things...
I experienced this kind of situation before.... REALLY.

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When I was in PLKN, I was the ketua wirawati there...
I felt I was responsible to take care of the pelatih-pelatih,
and so I was strict, scolding them when they did the slightest mistake....

Because of that, I was hated by a lot of ppl...
Mind you, there were 300++ pelatih there...
Taking care all of them really gave me a lot of stress...
Now more than a hundred ppl hate me,
why? because I was TOO strict,
they said I was 'SKEMA',
means I was too strict on the rules.

I learned my lesson after more than 2 months,
I realized I shouldn't be too strict,
so I changed, I don't scold them too often,
I don't talk to them too seriously,
I changed my style of being the leader...
I talk to them, chat with them, laugh with them...
It was great, even though I was being scolded by the Jurulatih sometimes...
But I cared about my 300++ pelatih so much I don't really mind being scolded...
It's my duty, I'm responsible for it...

I had a lot of fun there...
That was really quite an experience...

3 comments:

Mas Light said...

ahhh, i never been strict. maybe a lil annoying at times but i won't be strict. hehe..

wooo wow..u got hundreds of ppl hate u...gawd that sucks. oh been a prefect before...nobody hates me though hahahaha

some ppl are more scared of me *hiks~

IRTeA said...

Haha...
That's good, unlike me...
But I learned my lesson though. XD

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